Every September, communities around the world observe Suicide Awareness Month to break the silence, dispel stigma, and bring hope to those who are struggling. As people of faith, we are called to “carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2) and be a light for those walking through darkness. Suicide is complex, painful, and deeply misunderstood — but together, we can raise awareness and save lives.
Myths and the Truth
Misinformation can keep people from seeking help or offering support. Here are a few common myths, along with the truth:
Myth 1: Talking about suicide will plant the idea in someone’s mind.
Truth: Open, non-judgmental conversations about suicide can be life-saving. They provide space for a person to feel heard and understood, reducing feelings of isolation.
Myth 2: People who talk about suicide are just seeking attention.
Truth: Talking about suicide is often a cry for help. We should treat every mention seriously, offering compassion and support.
Myth 3: Christians shouldn’t struggle with suicidal thoughts if they have enough faith.
Truth: Faithful believers can still battle depression, despair, or suicidal thoughts. Scripture is full of people who felt deep anguish — Elijah prayed for God to take his life (1 Kings 19:4), yet God cared for him and restored his strength. Struggle does not mean the absence of faith.
Myth 4: Once someone decides to take their life, nothing can be done to stop them.
Truth: Many people who consider suicide are ambivalent. Intervention, empathy, and treatment can make a difference.
What Scripture Says About Life and Hope
God’s Word affirms the value of life and offers comfort in our darkest moments:
- Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
- Jeremiah 29:11 – For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
- Romans 8:38-39 – And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.
- John 10:10 – Jesus came that we might have life and have it abundantly. [Paraphrased]
These verses remind us that God sees our pain, values our lives, and walks with us even in our lowest valleys.
Practical Tips for Raising Awareness
- Educate Yourself – Learn the warning signs of suicide: withdrawal, hopelessness, drastic mood changes, giving away possessions, or talking about wanting to die.
- Start Conversations – Ask “How are you doing—really?” and be willing to listen without judgment.
- Share Resources – Keep crisis helpline numbers handy. In the U.S., dial 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
- Create Safe Spaces – Whether at church, home, or work, foster environments where people can be honest about mental health struggles.
- Speak Life – Offer words of encouragement, remind people of their worth, and point them toward hope.
- Pray and Act – Pray for those in crisis and take tangible steps to connect them with help.
A Call to the Church and Community
Suicide is not just a mental health issue — it’s a community issue. The Body of Christ is uniquely positioned to bring hope, compassion, and practical support to those at risk. Let’s commit to:
- Breaking stigma by talking openly about mental health.
- Training leaders to recognize signs and respond wisely.
- Offering ongoing support for survivors of suicide loss.
When we respond with love instead of judgment, knowledge instead of fear, and presence instead of avoidance, we reflect the heart of Christ to those in crisis.
If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone.
Call or text 988 in the U.S.
Use the Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
For international helplines, visit: www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres
Written by James E. Francis, Jr., EdD, APC
james@restorationcounselingatl.com, ext 118
James has a heart for helping males struggling with anxiety, anger, depression, life transitions, resilience, and spiritual maturity. He also sees clients dealing with grief, infidelity, and pornography addiction. He has experience in marriage counseling and premarital counseling. James keeps it real, believes in second chances, and loves to meet others where they are.